Rules ( for all guys)

It seems the rules in our cutlure
have changed alot in last 40 years. I would like to step back, to time it was right for men to open the doors, and pull the chairs out. a time of gentle men and ladies. Many lines have been broken and safty of a woman heart is now easy temper with. This why I am eager to set some rules to be kept safe. Before a man, had to go to the father to go out with a young lady, but now they go right to her. I now understand how horrible it is when the order is off.
I now see how it safe for women to say no. Also men and women take dating so lighty, as if we can play with love. A women told two story of God ways, I now seeing how little some guys take this, tempter with a heart with no real desire to be married. As a women I fear for my sister and myself who can be trapped in his lies. We should not play with each other heart, but kept pure until we meet our husband/ wife. To se each other as brother and sister in Chirst.
It is my desire to keep my heart and emtions pure.
"Save yourself emotionally for your husband, for your wife. I believe that God’s best, God’s perfect will, God’s sweetest order, as much as possible is that you be a virgin physically, and emotionally when you enter into this matter of marriage."

"Why? I’m saving them for the most precious woman/man in my life. I don’t know who she is yet, but I’m saving them for her. Sorry all of you other young ladies/ guys, this is a prized possession, and I’m saving these emotion for the precious young lady of my life’s partner."

I desire to not allow my feeling to overflow for no one but the man I will someday marry.
"My heart is overflowing with love for you and I want you to know that it’s never overflowed before. I’ve been tempted for it to overflow but I’ve stopped it. By the grace of God, I didn’t allow it to stay". That’s a beautiful way to start, and that’s the right place to end."

No defrauding "stir up desires, that they cannot lawfully fulfill"
Not being a flirt. Not playing with love
taking your responsibilities- Please lead when needed
Never going to be alone with a guy, in a car or in home
Never going to pray alone, maybe at Church with others around
Never talking on the phone, with personal matters
Only hanging in groups
Please don't ask my number for personal reasons